We had a little side trip to visit my paternal grandfather's grave site.
To my knowledge, it hasn't been visited by any family members. Maybe ever?
He was in the Merchant Navy, supporting convoy vessels, and took ill and died (no other detailsknown). My grandmother couldn't afford to ship his body home, so he was buried in Belfast, the next stop as it were.
My dad was 4 when he died, and followed in his footsteps by joining the Royal Navy when he was 16. Being in the Navy, he wouldn't have been allowed to visit Ireland. Even as a retired naval officer, it would have been risky.
I took one of my dad's naval uniform buttons with me and pushed it down into the earth by the headstone
