Thanks for all the comments, they are appreciated. Yes it is difficult at times, and hopefully we will get it under control. We will see how this summer pans out and I will keep it updated.
Hopefully other people will find this thread useful, I am sure they will.
I know a lot of you have said how lucky she is that we have her, and yes she is. But I always think we are the lucky ones to have her. The amount of joy and happiness she brings is amazing and unmeasurable. But also just the way she takes everything in her stride, she has taught me a few things along the way, and for that I can't thank her enough.