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That's what I was told by a well respected trainer. Who knows as dogs can't tell us! x
I think people often say this in a bit of an offhand way - "he doesn't know his own size" etc etc. I think from a logical standpoint alone, that's very unlikely. I know I certainly feel the difference in other people's size around me (as I'm rather short) and I think it would be daft to think that dogs have no perception of their relative size to one another. We can, of course, say "we can't know if dogs are aware of their relative size", but we certainly can't categorically assert "dogs are not aware of their relative size". I think, also, that people often don't expect little dogs to actually be dogs, and so they make the comment to indicate that they are as much a "proper dog", with all that comes along with that, as any larger breed.A trainer told me some years ago that dogs don't know their size or any other dogs either, which puts the onus on the owner. What do you think? x
This is a really interesting point; I've not really had much to do with small dogs until my friend got a Patterdale terrier (not the smallest admittedly, but smaller than labs!). She struggles a bit as her dog is anxious but although she's been through a stack of trainers she hasn't made much progress - so often in difficult situations does pick him up. She was told by one trainer not to pick him up as 'it puts him above other dogs and feeds his aggression'If they get a bit snappy and defensive (or whatever) the owner can pick them up and often do.
. I guess this is a major part of the issue - because you can pick them up/manoeuvre them, it becomes more about immediate management and less about training. Pretty much repeating what you've all said already, just thinking out loud! 
. I hope you are OK, not easy when your gentle labrador gets on the ruff end of an encounter. It’s a bit of a misconception that you can reinforce fear, at least in this manner. But what the owner could do is make the nasty thing even worse (because most dogs don’t actually like being picked up) and then the approach of the dog becomes a predictor of that and therefore generates a stronger response than it did before.you are reinforcing the fear that you have and the dog will sense it and become nervous in future situations