Nisha Noo

[Lab_adore]

We paid to get Benson's ashes put into a special vase and they are in our display cabinet - in a very discreet place - along with the beautiful card that the vet sent us and a gorgeous poem the people who did the ashes gave us. Steve has not read either of them and we lost Benson in 2011.

Oscar cat is buried in our garden

I like the idea of Nisha being near you in a nice garden but you have to do what you feel is the right thing

 

[Loraseal]

There is no right or wrong thing to do.
It was a very traumatic and incredibly sad time for all of you.
At the end of her life, she finally got the sanctuary she deserved and witnessed loving humans.
Don't make any rash decisions for now.
You will know what to do when the time is right.

 

[snowbunny]

J is a good‘un. I’d not mentioned my thoughts for a garden with him until last night. Had a bit of a teary conversation with him ... tear rolling down his face, too ... and then he showed me the photos he’d taken of where he thought we could make a place for her.

 

[Cath]

Lovely man

 

[Natalie]

Whatever you and J decide will be perfect @snowbunny.

We still haven't decided what to do with Jessicat's ashes yet. Oscar cat got buried in the garden on the day he died, but with Jess we knew it wouldn't be possible to do it straight away so we had her cremated.

Somehow scattering her on the garden by Oscar hasn't felt quite right, maybe because she was such a housecat and always gravitated to us rather than any sort of adventure. So, maybe, we will always just keep her in the house with us rather than lay her elsewhere. I'm not sure yet and that has been at least eight weeks now. I've realised there's no right move here and the time we take to think about this final decision is probably just a reflection that we continue to strive to do the right thing for our beloved pets to the very end.

 

[Candy]

J is a good‘un. I’d not mentioned my thoughts for a garden with him until last night. Had a bit of a teary conversation with him ... tear rolling down his face, too ... and then he showed me the photos he’d taken of where he thought we could make a place for her.

He's a good 'un then. My Trevor was always just as heartbroken as I was whenever we lost a dog. That meant a lot to me. You will find the right place for your poor dear troubled girl eventually. Bless you for trying so hard and for making the last few months of her life quite possibly her best.xxx

 

[Granca]

All our pets (dogs, cats, rabbits, guinea pigs, gerbils) are buried in the garden. It just seemed the right thing to do.