A few structural changes here at MLF

Hi all, as some of you have already noted, I’ve been rather absent of late. I’m not sharing any details, but life has been rather tough and I’ve had to reevaluate some of my priorities. As you know, I’m not one to sit still and do nothing, so every minute of every day has been filled to bursting in recent times and not always with the things that are the best for my own well-being. One of my priorities has always been the running of this forum, and from its inception, I have felt a weight of responsibility for its smooth operation, including (but not limited to) keeping up to date with all the posts. That takes a significant amount of time and mental energy, especially when reading about other people’s life struggles, and it’s recently become apparent that, piggy-backing on other circumstances, this is having a profoundly negative impact on my own state of mind.

As soon as this became clear to me, I knew that the only course of action I could take was to hand that responsibility on. As long as I am the one holding the keys, I will continue to feel that I have to watch over everything that’s going on, and I just don’t have the capacity to do that anymore.

I put this to the mod team, and together they discussed several options which could be investigated, including moving the forum to another platform, but the decision was made to try to keep it as-is, and split the responsibilities amongst an admin team instead. I won’t be a part of that, but I will still be on call for as long as is necessary whenever there’s anything that needs my help.

For you guys, this shouldn’t really make any noticeable difference. No technology is moving, there is simply an ongoing transfer of credentials, ownership, and knowledge between me and the team.

I plan to remain a member of the forum, and to keep posting about my motley crew and the fact that it’s always cream on top, but without that same burden of obligation. My final act as a super-admin will be to demote myself to regular member, and I am very much looking forward to pressing that button. :happy:

I’ll probably still be a little quiet for a while, working on my brain fog and recharging. Finding other burdens I can drop.



A huge thanks to the team who are taking up the reins (I’ll leave it to them to fill you in on that) as without them, the forum would have had to shut its doors.

For now, I wish you all peace, joy, and light :)
 
Thank you for everything you have done for us all Fiona, I know we are all grateful for this special place but you must take care of yourself before anything else. You have a very busy life and I'm sure you need some me-time, time to drop those bags xx
 

HAH

Moderator
Location
Devon, UK
This is an excellent decision Fi, I’m really pleased for you - I’ve wondered for a long time how you have the capacity of ten women (and 50 men :rofl:) and it’s time to rebalance. Gigantic thanks to you, and the mods, for keeping this beautiful beast fed and watered. And if, in due course, the mods judge we need to find extra resources amongst our multiskilled members, either in money or efforts, I’m sure we’re keen to dig in where we can. Thanks again for being awesome xxxxx
P.s. I’m sure you meant ‘bottom’
 
You are a complete star, Fiona - this forum has been such a source of joy and support in so many ways to so many of us, and that is down to you. Pongo is immensely grateful that I found you. Now take a break and put those bags down - it will all be fine. Looking forward to your posts, that are just the ones that you want to make!
And yes, of course it is always cream on top. Of course.
 
I thought something was 'up'. sorry you are having life problems and hope they soon resolve. You have done a tremendous job with this forum and united members from other countries which has been quite wonderful, I consider myself very lucky to have found the forum.

I look forward to your posts when you have the time again and especially want to know how Talia is getting on. xxx
 
I’ve wondered for a long time how you have the capacity of ten women (and 50 men :rofl:)
Yes, exactly - I’m very grateful for all you’ve done with the forum and so sorry things have been tough. You’ve created a very special place. It’s great that you’ve also put in place a willing team of mods who will carry it forward.

I hope you manage to grab some down time and recharge your batteries. Looking forward to catching up when you’ve time to pop in again. :hug:
 

Cath

MLF Sales Coordinator
Thank you for everything you have done for us Fiona, giving us this wonder place to come to.
I hope things get better for you soon. Take care of yourself x
 

Emily_Babbelhund

Mama Red HOT Pepper
Thank you for everything you've made possible here - the forum is a lifeline for me and I'm forever grateful. I agree with everyone that it sounds like the best decision to take a weight off your shoulders and move to a new chapter. I'll continue to look for and look forward to your posts...and hope things start to go to a better place for you.

:hug:
 
Thank you for everything you’ve done here. I especially looked forward to your posts—you were never shy of speaking out, for which I’m very grateful as I’ve learned a lot from you.

I’m sorry life has been rough for you. I hope things get better quickly. My sister’s birthday was a few days ago. She got 4 job offers that day. Unlike a year ago, to the day—also on her birthday—when she was retrenched from her job in the most horrible way. It’s an example of how things don’t stay the same. Wishing you a speedy return to the upswing in your life.
 

Candy

Biscuit Tin Guardian
Fiona, like so many others have said, I too have often wondered how you found the time to do all that you did. It's almost a relief to find that you're only human after all, just a pretty amazing human!
Thankyou from the bottom of my heart for all you have put into this Forum. Your kindness, compassion and understanding have helped to make and keep it the safe, welcoming and sometimes wonderfully whacky place that it is. I have also found it a lifeline at times. Looking forward to hearing more about you, your life and your lovely dogs, in your own time, when you're ready and as 'just ' you.xxxx
 
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