A Kipper brag today! Kipper had his regular medication review this morning, and needed a blood sample taken to check liver function. The vet (who is fab) said "I'll just take him out the back", I said I'd like to go too so she asked the vet nurse to come into the consulting room instead. They both started bracing Kipper, and the nurse held his head - which I could see Kipper wasn't comfy with, so I asked if we could pause and regroup. He's brilliant at listening and understanding, but gets suspicious very quickly and will freeze up if things are just done to him (like most of us!). They listened really well; I suggested we let Kipper set himself up, so with some gentle talk he offered to sit in front of the vet, and the nurse supported him without being restrictive and he was so much more comfortable. I gave him squeezy cheese while the vet shaved his neck and took blood, and he didn't move a muscle. I was so, so proud of him and pleased that I'd spoken up - I never used to have the confidence but have taught myself to advocate better. I'm certain it reduced his stress, and helps keep the vets a comfortable (ish) place to be. I made a point of thanking the vet nurse for being so responsive, it was clearly not her usual way but she adapted well.
For context, we do regularly use a red light therapy 'wand' on his elbows, and have set that up cooperatively - and I'm working on my other handling skills to bring in as much choice and consent as possible for him - so I think that history really helped.