I don't know about this Doug was a bit like this but not much but Moo,. It's was very different. She made sure things went her way anyway and because of how she was right up until her last day she was making herself very present. She would send us of to work command breakfast and still steal stuff. Her mind did not slow really. Her body was still good I think I was very lucky. She was never so distant as this, and still very much the head of the household in her mind. I miss her so.