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- Essex, U.K.
Something occurred to me this morning, not very pleasant but I am being practical here.
Maisy's 'magic word' is 'Granny'. Don't ask me why but she goes crazy for my mother-in-law (none of us knows why).
It used to be 'cheese' but I found she responded so much better to the G word when we used it - 'Granny's coming round' etc. she perks up and races to the window to see, or pulls like crazy when going to see her.
So I have got her out of some sticky scrapes by shouting 'Granny' at the top of my voice in the middle of the park.
But Granny is getting on and one day won't be here.
Would it be cruel to keep using that word with Maisy as she would expect to see her, do dogs remember people like that and get sad because they are not there?
In all honesty I don't think I could use it, I would have to change it, I wouldn't like to see her sad that Granny is not really there.
And over time the effect of the word would probably lessen if it can't be reinforced every now and then. I've probably answered my own question.
Maisy's 'magic word' is 'Granny'. Don't ask me why but she goes crazy for my mother-in-law (none of us knows why).
It used to be 'cheese' but I found she responded so much better to the G word when we used it - 'Granny's coming round' etc. she perks up and races to the window to see, or pulls like crazy when going to see her.
So I have got her out of some sticky scrapes by shouting 'Granny' at the top of my voice in the middle of the park.
But Granny is getting on and one day won't be here.
Would it be cruel to keep using that word with Maisy as she would expect to see her, do dogs remember people like that and get sad because they are not there?
In all honesty I don't think I could use it, I would have to change it, I wouldn't like to see her sad that Granny is not really there.
And over time the effect of the word would probably lessen if it can't be reinforced every now and then. I've probably answered my own question.