The Labraventures of Carbón, Spanish (ex-) foster dog extraordinaire

This idea is seriously doing my head in. I've gone from denial ("Something that small couldn't have REALLY hurt him") to gratefulness ("Thank goodness they caught in time and all's well that ends well") to today being so pissed off with this dog that I can't even see straight. STILL today trying to such down everything that's not superglued to the pavement. And of course every little bit I think, "What if that's poisonous???"

I've just been so, so angry today. Yes, I realise that it's fear that's turned to anger - that's how I roll unfortunately - but I don't know how to keep this dog safe if I can't keep him off things. What do you do to even train this? We've been working on 'don't touch' for months now and he's got it. I could open a box of pizza on the ground in front of him and he wouldn't touch the stuff, but something that didn't come from me and that I didn't notice to say 'don't touch' about in time? Down the gullet.

How do people deal with this? Because I am not dealing. :sad:
It sounds like this is really affecting you, so I'm going to suggest a basket muzzle. It will give you a break from having to watch him like a hawk and help you relax again. Your tension isn't going to be helping either of you. By not being able to access the food, he won't be able to self reinforce the behaviour, and you won't be having to nag him to "leave it, leave it, leave it", which can't be good for your relationship.
 

Atemas

UK Tour Guide
This is me every single walk. Labradors will be Labradors.... Eternal vigilance combined with an air of resignation - that’s the approach I’ve cultivated over the years. ;)
I really feel for you @Emily_Babbelhund about the scavenging and the rat poison incident was very scary. I think @snowbunny’s idea of the muzzle is a good one to ease the tension from you for a bit. @Oberon - this is me too. Sky has always eaten stuff - mostly other dog’s poo 🤮. She has been very ill in the past - all situations deeply upsetting and turn me into a neurotic mess. Red will scavenge stuff from time to time and she knows she shouldn’t - she gets all evasive, determined to eat what she shouldn’t. No amount of ‘leave it’ ‘drop it’ works in those situations but we continue to train it. It is the big downside of all the really wonderful things that make up a Labrador.
 
I think it is difficult for Carbon as he is faced with tasty food on the ground all the time in the cities and this scarfing has become a habit. @snowbunny 's idea is good to break him of the habit. I managed to stop a friend's Labrador from eating all sorts of nasties and running off and hiding with it, to swop. Have something really delicious on you and as he picks something up, call SWOP. I do feel your pain, but it is the humans fault for leaving food on the ground; imagine if we kept finding £20 notes on the floor, would we leave them, no, we would keep looking!
 

Emily_Babbelhund

Mama Red HOT Pepper
I've been radio silent here for a few days - though talking about pants, trousers, sodlets and Labradecorating elsewhere - because this has been a busy yet essentially uninteresting little stop along our journey. I ended up staying as long as I'd planned, even though I wanted to decamp the first day, and I guess that's a good thing at least economically in terms of having pre=paid my accommodation.

I ended up seeing my friend that I came to visit three times after all and today was able to take her and her dogs in the Tardis to her vet in Nice. It was nice to be able to help her out, and especially to help out little Pickle who has been in some distress lately. I also had a nearly day long visit with my former manager/client. We've had a rocky relationship at times over the past eight years, but it was sweet of her to be so enthusiastic to meet up and I surprised myself by having a good time chatting with her about non-work things.

In an odd bookend type of moment, tonight I met the exact same chatty German man in the parking lot of the grocery store. Met him on my first night and he popped out of no where on my last night. He said he'd look me up on his next trip to Regensburg and while I expected him to ask me for my FB page or some such, he just said, "Oh, I'll find you!| The weird thing about statement is that it didn't freak me out - and it probably should have - and what\s more I don't doubt that he WILL find me in Regensburg. He was like a little magical German elf.

Between the rain, working on my German taxes and job search and the emergency vet run that took six hours today, no tourism happened on this leg of the trip. That's ok. I've seen nearly everything around here anyway and tourism is not why I came here.

Having said THAT, the caravan is moving on again tomorrow. As I still have some to do's to take care of tomorrow morning, I'm planning a late start and a short two hour drive to Arles, where Carbon and I will take in the old town and luxuriate in the 'cheerful prison block makeover magic" of the Ibis Budget Palais des Congres. Woo hoo! Actually I had a choice of an Airbnb apartment, but I just wanted somewhere that I could show up anytime and do a grumpy early morning departure guilt-free.

But Ibis Budget really is prison makeover magic. Heh, heh. Love that place. :D

Then it's Brittany here we come and a VERY long couple of drive days. I've always wanted to go to Brittany and this is probably a horrible time of year for it, but I'm looking for no traffic, beautiful if rainy beaches and lots of cows. Brittany fits the bill. After that, we'll see if I brave the ferry - and to where? Ireland? UK? Or instead of the scary ferry, do I run to the comfortable known quantity which is the Calais Eurotunnel?

I've already talked to Kate @Beanwood about her experiences on the ferry from Roscoff to Plymouth. If anyone else has any advice to share on the various ferries on offer from Roscoff, Le Havre, Caen, etc., please share your wisdom.

This has turned into a kind of house-cleaning post, hopefully either Carbon or I will be back to more daring do after we toddle away from the Cote d'Azur!
 
I'm sorry that you had a bit of a mixed bag of a visit. Now, onwards and upwards! And at least you can relax about the Ibis , because you know what you're getting (unlike the AirBnB!). What's your tentative route north?

I had a look at Hah's link and the pet friendly cabin sounds pretty good. Little Mac is a cutie! Not being able to take the dog to the restaurant with you is a bit of a dilemma if you're travelling alone, but it sounds like an interesting experience.
 

Emily_Babbelhund

Mama Red HOT Pepper
I would say now is the best time to go to Brittany. The traffic is grim in the summer.
Good point!

Looking into doggable ferries, we found this blog the other day of a doggy experience of the Portsmouth- Le Havre ferry: Taking a Dog to France by ferry- Pet-Friendly Cabin - Wandering Bird
Thank you, I'll check it out tonight when I'm tucked into my prison bed. :D

I had a look at Hah's link and the pet friendly cabin sounds pretty good. Little Mac is a cutie! Not being able to take the dog to the restaurant with you is a bit of a dilemma if you're travelling alone, but it sounds like an interesting experience.
This time of year the pet friendly cabin option is only available on the France-Ireland route. It is quite expensive but does look good. And I don't care about the restaurant - it's just a cold canteen anyway on the no frills ferry and I can't really eat on a ferry anyway due to sea sickness. Better to stay in the cabin with Carbon and keep my green-ness to myself.

Today on to Arles, then La Rochelle, then Brittany and we'll see what percolates up in my mind during the drive. :cool:
 
I've no idea about the best travel arrangements or destinations - never having experienced all this. No doubt you'll sort out the best options for you and Carbon.
I've enjoyed the catch up and have just about reached the point where I'll start worrying if I don't see an update from you in the mornings :fingers:
 
I can't really eat on a ferry anyway due to sea sickness
That would be sealing the deal in favour of the tunnel for me! :D

If I travelled by ferry with a dog, I would have to have them with me. No way would I leave them in the car, not because I think any harm would necessarily befall them, but just because I'd be so worried about them the whole time. It would make an already unpleasant experience (I hate travelling by ferry) even worse.
Not being able to eat in the canteen might be a bonus, though - those things are grim!
 

Beanwood

Administrator
This time of year the pet-friendly cabin option is only available on the France-Ireland route. It is quite expensive but does look good.
Like this option...stuff your rucksack full of food, download a film.. or listen to a good podcast..line up a few alcoholic miniatures...chat on the forum, cuddle Carbon, snooze and arrive in Ireland all nice and relaxed....:celebrate: :)
 

Emily_Babbelhund

Mama Red HOT Pepper
f I travelled by ferry with a dog, I would have to have them with me.
There is also a ferry with a kennel option - I figured if I took that one I'd just stay in the kennel with Carbon. :p I actually think he'd be happiest in the car, though. He's so chilled in there and is very used to waiting for me. But I would worry. You can go check on them as many time as you want for 15 minutes at a time...I'd be cycling in and out as often as possible.

Like this option...stuff your rucksack full of food, download a film.. or listen to a good podcast..line up a few alcoholic miniatures...chat on the forum, cuddle Carbon, snooze and arrive in Ireland all nice and relaxed...
Hey, wait a minute, that plan doesn't include a night at Beanwood torturing @Mr Beanwood with my love of ready meals. Of course I could do that AFTER Ireland too. :sneaky: I'm afraid it would be a no food zone and lots of anti-nausea drugs instead. But it's still possible.

Now I'm off for a night time tour of Arles. Our Ibis Prison is perfect and even let Carbon stay free for some reason. Another reason to love them!
 

Emily_Babbelhund

Mama Red HOT Pepper
In the name of trying to get back to having at least a little update today I'm going to wax unpoetic for a bit, but I have to admit it was an odd duck of a day. My former manager asked me to come say goodbye at 10:30 am, so I rushed around to clean and pack to leave on time. Mission accomplished, but then I didn't actually leave my manager's until 3pm! It was another nice visit - and she cooked me another nice lunch - but it kind of tossed plans of visiting Arles and having the evening to plan my next couple days out of the window. By the time I got to the hotel it was already 6:30 pm so I took the time to feed Carbon and then we zipped to the centre of Arles for a bit of tourism.

It was getting dark by the time I parked the car and inevitably I got turned around in the little maze streets. Somehow I stumbled upon the arena, but who knows what I didn't see. The drive back to the hotel was a bit of a catastrophe as I'm not very good at little maze streets in the dark even with Sean, my erstwhile satnav companion. I swear Carbon just sat in the back and rolled his eyes.

Carbon has been a bit whackadoodle for the last couple days. This has been probably the least activity and exercise he's gotten since he first came out of the shelter with me, poor thing. He was so good in the hotel, though. Even if he's feeling psycho, if I grab his harness he puts on his best "I'm a proper well-mannered Labrador" show. This evening while I was - again - working on stuff for my German tax attorney, he tried to tell me with a paw in my face that life has been WAY too boring lately. Luckily he was bribable with a play session with Bunny and a nice peanut butter Kong. Now he's passed out on the bed...good boy!

I think I'm going to head to bed myself and try to tackle the perennial question of where I'm sleeping tomorrow early in the morning. Part of me thinks I should extend a possible Brittany stay to make the most out of the area and recover a bit from the last couple days of psycho Riviera driving before heading to Ireland or the UK. Another part of me - which is very loud - is screaming "Oh for heaven's sake...GET. OUT. OF. FRANCE."

I can't believe I'm saying this so late in the game, but...we'll see? Or the deeper question, am I learning to be spontaneous yet or just driving myself nuts with all this last minute planning lunacy?

The jury is still out. :facepalm: :cheeky:



Here was my lone tourist photo of the day. Bad tourist, Emily, bad tourist...
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You can go check on them as many time as you want for 15 minutes at a time...I'd be cycling in and out as often as possible.
Oh that doesn't sound too bad, then. When I looked up about it last, you weren't allowed back on the car deck while the ferry was moving, which I couldn't handle!

This has been probably the least activity and exercise he's gotten since he first came out of the shelter with me, poor thing.
It's amazing how they change to their new lifestyle, isn't it? I ponder on this a lot with Ginny, and I sometimes watch her and really wish she could think back to how far she's come in a short time. This evening, it was chucking down with rain and she's of the Carbón school of thought that wet from above is BAD, so she stayed in but was getting antsy, so I decided to teach her to count. Willow didn't want to go out, either, because of the storm, so we had a girlie maths lesson. Ginny was prodding me with her pointy nose to get the hell on with it and I couldn't help but think that not long ago, she had no-one to sit and talk to her in the evening. No comfy sofa to sit on. No walks to go on. No entertainment or enrichment at all. Now, if she's not getting enough cuddles, she lets me know that she has standards that need to be met! :rofl:
 

Emily_Babbelhund

Mama Red HOT Pepper
Now, if she's not getting enough cuddles, she lets me know that she has standards that need to be met! :rofl:
Good for her, a girl should have her standards. :love:

It's amazing how they change to their new lifestyle, isn't it?
Yes, was thinking that today as Carbon strolled through the hotel lobby and onto the elevator like he owned the place. I remember VERY well that first night in the hotel in Salamanca with him and Paul. Oh my goodness, they were a nightmare, those two. Like Ginny, they've both come a very long way indeed.
 
I had a wee google of Arles yesterday and it seems like a pretty, and interesting, town! That's a great photo of the arena.

You guys are lucky in Europe. Here there are two ferry companies that travel between islands. Dogs have to stay in the car or in the on-board kennels, and you can't visit them at all. You're on a different level in Europe when it comes to pets.
 

Emily_Babbelhund

Mama Red HOT Pepper
Couldn't help myself, staying up again until the wee hours to do travel planning. Still not decided on the ferry, but have a little aparthotel in Nantes for tomorrow night and - yay! - a dog-friendly barn conversion for Saturday to Tuesday in Brittany. Then we'll see if I hop on a ferry to Ireland on Tuesday or do something entirely different.


The father's barn welcome you - Cottages for Rent in Kermoroc'h, Brittany, France

Tottering off to bed now...9 hour drive day mañana! :tail:
 
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