Does the membership of the Strolling Singles wax and wane? Once you join, are you committed to that status in order to remain in the group? What’s the point of joining if not to change your status?

The signing of the form sounded rather peculiar!!!
Good questions! Since this is my third year, I can attest that the group has zero to do with dating. The two main leaders actually live together but aren’t a couple, which I thought was rather funny. I mean, do they not hook up because they’d have to kick themselves out of the group?
I asked the leader about that form where you had to declare yourself single on pain of death and she said, “Oh we just inherited everthing including all the legal forms and the name from the last leaders.” But still, do they expel you out for pairing up? Who knows ?
It does appear that all members are single, mostly widows/widowers or (like me

) chronically single by disposition. I’m not the only one there who is socially awkward.Most are in the 60- late 70’s age range. And strangely for that age group, there are more men than women.
It’s quite popular , they require pre-booking and limit numbers to 25 or so, but they could easily have more. It fills a niche for the walking set: there are two other groups in Cornwall, one young and hip that you have to book months in advance and one that requires a much higher fitness level. If you’re older, slower, or want to have a group lunch in an cosy pub after the walk, Strolling Singles is your bag!
On a side note , I’ve found it really hard to find community things to join in Cornwall. Real Cornish people understandably have generations of family connections which make up their social circle. I’d really like to do another local activity where I could meet people and learn more about Cornwall that doesn’t involve walking miles in cow poo , but I haven’t found one yet!
Ok, back to you, Carbón!
