It was so nice to take him somewhere and know it didn’t matter if he cried or fussed
You know people really don't mind a new mum with a little fussy baby as much as you'd think. I really think people are more understanding when it's a little baby.
An annoying three year old chucking a tantrum - not so much
When Nathan was little, we used to take him to a cafe, sit down but order a takeaway coffee. That way we could sit and enjoy our coffee but, if he completely lost it we could pick up our coffee and leave.