Our Golden Oldies... how are they doing?

I know that several of our lovely forum dogs are slowly entering, or are already in, their golden years... Poppy will turn 12 this year (in March), and I know there are several others who will hit this milestone too - Rourke, Harley, Snowie... as well as others who are older. I often think that 12 is a real turning point for labradors; once they reach 12 they are definitely seniors, and life changes for them, and for us.

Poppy is doing well I think; obviously she has her health issues (epilepsy and elbow dysplasia), but we are managing both and touch wood she seems happy and is pretty mobile all things considered. This morning she happily trotted along with Merlin and me for an hour in the forest, but this afternoon she will stay at home when Merlin goes out for his second walk and will just have a sniff and a pee in the garden. Then we will go out again for 15 minutes at around 5pm. Her eyesight and hearing are both still excellent - when she wants them to be. Sometimes she acts as though she can't hear me calling, but she can hear the rustle of a crisp packet from the other end of the house...

She still lives for any sort of retrieving, and we always say that while Merlin enjoys retrieving, it is actually what life is all about for Poppy, so we do a little bit of dummy work with her once or twice a week. This is just for her emotional and mental well-being, as we know it is not really very good for her elbow, so it mostly involves us hiding a couple of dummies deep in the leaf mould and letting her search for them. This makes her so happy - she is a changed dog when she is working; so sharp and concentrated; she seems rejuvenated. We don't do any throwing or longer retrieves for her, because she would definitely go full tilt and would limp afterwards, but we can't deny her a bit of fun so the compromise is using her nose and searching. She is so proud when she finds the dummy, and I no longer insist on any rules with her, so she is allowed to carry the dummy home, or even bury it in the woods if she wants to - whatever makes her happy!!

She's lying on the couch by me as I write, with Merlin on my other side. Dear little Poppy, she's such an odd little character - we call her The Enigma - aloof at times, very cuddly and affectionate at others. Firm with Merlin, but at the same time protective of him - if ever she thinks he is going to get into trouble with another dog she starts getting all flirty and runs around encouraging the other dog to play with her, to distract attention from him. I find this terribly endearing! We indulge her more than we ever used to, because she is such a good girl anyway, and because I think she deserves it, and because... well, who knows how long we will have her? January is seizure month for Pops, always a bit of a worrying time.

We love her so much, and I am just grateful for every day that we have with her.

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What a beautiful post. ❤ Heart wrenching. But you’ve articulated so much what I feel, too.

We’re now giving Snowie roast chicken for lunch almost every day because it makes him so happy. I started doing it as a way to get more liquid into him (it’s more like a soup!). But now I do it also because it makes him so cheerful.
 
@MellowYellow , I really felt your emotion reading your post, bless Poppy , she is such a lucky girl to be with you .
We arent sure how old Nelly is , but at least 9 , probably older which isnt really classed as old for small dogs . Having said this , I have noticed a change in her over the past 12 months , she is happy for shorter walks or even no walks in the current horrible weather we are having . I adore old dogs , they have a wisdom about them xx
 
Thank you so much for your post. Homer will be 12 in May but in the last six months he definitely turned that corner to being an old dog with health problems. Just like Poppy he can be amazing and full of energy when it comes to mantrailing then at other times I wonder how much longer we will have with him. Take every day at a time.
 

Naya

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I mentioned to my OH earlier about how Harley seems to have aged over the past 2 weeks since she became poorly. Her muzzle has sudden gotten whiter, as has the bottom half of her tail. I still can never get over how much Harley looks like Poppy in the face. I’m also sat here with her by my side. Harley loves having the odd hoolie with either Lyla or Ziggy (my dog walkers dog), but rarely does this with other dogs nowadays. She’s still very cheeky and likes to pinch my slipper and run out of the door for me to chase her. She still likes her ball, but mainly just to carry it or throw it directly to her. Chasing it is too much effort nowadays.
I really hope that this January is a good one for Poppy.
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Jacqui-S

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Lilly is 13 and 3/4. 14 in May.

I haven't posted much about her health issues recently as (along with our human issues) I'm not looking for sympathy and just try work things through myself mostly, aware that others on here have bigger issues to deal with..
It has however been getting harder year on year, and I think writing our experiences may help others.

Lilly had a diagnosis of severe hip dysplasia at around a year old, has had no surgery for this, and had discoid lupus a few years ago (just as a recap). Her lupus affected her for around 18 months and thankfully has been quiescent since stopping her steroids.

Her joints are however giving her some issues. Her hips are not that great, and over the last 6 months in particular she has been struggling with her right shoulder/elbow too. She is of course always keen for walks but at a slower pace and a bit shorter distances (which suits me and my now dodgy "good" hip).

We have done the round of NSAIDS over the years and they no longer help much. She is on regular paracetamol (500mg tab twice daily as advised by vet) as well as Yumove Advance and Golden paste and we have just started her on CBD oil.

Lilly previously had Tramadol but she didn't do well on it, quite twitchy, so there has been some internal wrangling about next steps. Not too sure about gabapentin from my human experience and quite frankly was put off Librela after mistakenly looking at one of their FB pages (Librela Experiences, for the record.......). I'm keeping my fingers crossed she will get some benefit from the CBD oil but not even half way up the titration ladder yet.

Lilly is also having issues with 💩 in the house. Mostly when she is excited or when she wakes in the morning, sometimes overnight. Thankfully she usually has a "kick able" poo but it's lovely waking to the smell of 💩......... I can't decide if this is from back end weakness/nerve damage or whether it's a wee bit of dementia. Whichever, she point blank refuses to go out the house before either breakfast or a walk 🤦‍♀️. Stubborn.
It also means I don't get much of a lie in, as when she hears me stirring she wakes and nudges me and I of course, get up to "let her out" which she refuses, then when I go for a quick pee before making her breakfast she may well do her unintended poops 🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️.

She is still herself and a big softy, and a lovely girl and we love her to bits.

Consider me shared :wink:

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Candy

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I lost both my previous girls when they were only nine, Solstice to kidney failure and Barley, sweet yellow girl, to cancer. Their predogcessors, mother and daughter, both Black Labs, made it to 14.
Joy is now six, still lively and lovely, and I so much hope that we still have a decent amount of time left together! However, I have to agree that there is something so very precious about an elderly dog. :heart: :heart::heart:
 
@Mellow Yellow, what a beautiful photo of Poppy and @Naya, another beautiful photo.

@Jacqui-S, like you I was not at all keen on giving Rourke Gabapentin after Mike was put on it, so I kept Rourke well away from it until my ex vet's wife said Richard's daughter's dog had been on it for 3 years, so I gave in and put Rourke on it, wish I had done it earlier, no physical side effects, he is also on Librela and Ketamine. I stopped the CBD oil as couldn't see any results. You have done so well to get Lilly to such a good age. Rourke will be 12 on January 11th and I am so worried he won't get to that date.
 
Lilly is also having issues with 💩 in the house. Mostly when she is excited or when she wakes in the morning, sometimes overnight. Thankfully she usually has a "kick able" poo but it's lovely waking to the smell of 💩......... I can't decide if this is from back end weakness/nerve damage or whether it's a wee bit of dementia. Whichever, she point blank refuses to go out the house before either breakfast or a walk 🤦‍♀️. Stubborn.
It also means I don't get much of a lie in, as when she hears me stirring she wakes and nudges me and I of course, get up to "let her out" which she refuses, then when I go for a quick pee before making her breakfast she may well do her unintended poops 🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️.
Oh, I remember this with Billy!! He was well over 15 and every morning I would leap out of bed and the very first thing I did (no time for a pee) was to run downstairs in order to get him out the door into the garden... It was exhausting! But of course we loved him to bits and I didn't begrudge either the early starts or the times when I was too late to get him into the garden in time...
 

Lisa

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I have to say I feel very lucky that Simba is doing as well as he does. He’s 11.5 but you really wouldn’t know it, except for his silver muzzle (and eyebrows :happy:). He still has lots of energy and is going on our training walks for our Camino with just as much, if not more, pep than we have, sometimes :happy:
He has a little bit of stiffness sometimes when he gets up from sleeping. Not very noticeable but we are giving him glucosamine supplements/treats which he loves, of course. I think they do help. I still don’t know what caused his refusal of food a couple weeks back but I guess he had a bit of a bug. He’s been fine since.
So for now it’s pretty much life as usual. I do worry about leaving him for 6 weeks in the spring. He’ll be with my daughter and son who will share dog-watching duties but I worry that he will suddenly have some issue that they will have to deal with. But not much I can do about that!
I think he’s getting some cataracts developing. I can see a bit of cloudiness in his eyes in certain conditions.
For the most part he’s the same goofy, food-obsessed, cuddly, complicated dog he’s always been.
 
Good that Simba is doing so well @Lisa! Hopefully he will surprise you and come through your six week separation with no problems at all.

My mother's collie, Sally, will be 12 this month. She is healthy and well, except for her really bad hips. This has been getting worse for years (I blame the tennis ball chucker that they used on the shingly beach for years...). She can walk ok once she gets going, but it is getting up that is very difficult for her, and she is obviously often in some pain. Mum has her on Rimadyl, and has recently started giving her paracetamol and gabapentin. I do worry a bit, Mum and Sally are so bonded and Sally is also an integral part of Mum's social interactions - the people she meets on walks, the interactions with the dog walkers (Mum walks Sally once a day, my brother and a neighbour take turns walking her too); and also the daily routine of feeding and taking care of Sally and Ollie (the elderly cat), all these things are really important. Mum's back is very bad, she finds walking very difficult these days, and Sally is such a good patient girl with her.
 

HAH

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Sally sounds a beautiful soul @MellowYellow - I can understand you feelings about her and your mum's relationship.
I do worry a bit, Mum and Sally are so bonded and Sally is also an integral part of Mum's social interactions
My mum's 12 year old dog Jambo has been remarkably good until about 9 months ago when his back legs became more obviously painful and stiff. He's been on paracetamol with occasional vet physio visits since then, but with his recent total eyesight loss (apparently down to haemorrhage behind the eyes which the vet is still trying to get to the bottom of) and worsening mobility he's taken a steep downturn and my mum's preparing to say goodbye. He's been alongside her for so many key events and they have a very close relationship. Her younger dog Zorro will keep her busy and active but he's a completely different character and they don't yet have a strong bond. I do worry a bit for her.
 
I can identify with your Mothers, @MellowYellow and @HAH as I am exactly in the same place. Rourke is nearly 12 and not long to go, he is my social life, in fact he is my life, all my friends are 'doggy friends' but they have now gone on with new puppies. I never envisaged being in this position, have had dogs for the last 50+ years, every day of my life and now an empty life ahead (if I am still alive!).
 

Beanwood

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Casper will be 15 in a few weeks. He is on various meds for arthritis, but still enjoy a mooch around the garden, albeit a bit wobbly now. He suffers from megaeoshophagus which is more problematic, and getting harder to manage. The other dogs are all amazing with him, so gentle. Benson is now 10, but still a puppy in all respects LOVES playing with young Woody! Bramble is 8.. Otter will be 5 in March, River ( Brambles puppy) is 3 next week, Teasel is 2 and Woody has just turned a year. He is the spit of Benson, and has the exact same personality and habits, so a bit of a handful but absolutely adorable, loves other dogs and gives the best cuddles.
 
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