Poppy

It doesn’t seem that long ago that we were sharing the antics of (and worries about) our young dogs. Now, sadly, we’re sharing the agonies of making that decision for those that are now oldies.

You’ll have time to concentrate on Poppy over the coming days, rather than feeling torn and worrying about her when you’re away. Like Poppy, Wispa wasn’t eating and somehow it seemed to be her way of letting me know that it was time to let her go…. It’s the hardest decision we have to make for our dogs and it helps to be able to share that journey here, as we all understand. :hug:
 

HAH

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It’s so tough to make that call, but you sound incredibly sensible and calm, you’ve talked it through with a professional you trust, and beyond everything else you are putting Poppy first which is the greatest way to love her, however difficult it is. I feel like you know the best way forward for you all, but of course that doesn’t make it easier. Sending you huge sympathy and support right now, you’re carrying so much xxxx
 
Sadly my mother has taken a turn for the worst, and i have to fly out tomorrow to be with her and to help with her care. This means I have to leave Poppy and my OH to navigate Monday on their own. I know he will deal with it with loving kindness and sensitivity, but I am so so sad about it.

There's been a definite change in Poppy today; this afternoon and evening she has suddenly been much quieter and has spent most of the afternoon and evening sleeping. She sometimes looks as though she wants to eat, but then turns her head away - today she has eaten next to nothing. I think her time is close.
 

Atemas

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Oh Karen - what a horrible time for you. I know that you will find the strength to get through the next few days so take extra special care of yourself. Also to your OH :hug: :hug:. Thinking of you
 
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@MellowYellow I’m so sorry that your mom has taken a turn for the worse and now you’re unable to follow through with your original plan. You have loved Poppy with all your heart, she lacked for nothing, especially your love for her. I wish your OH all the strength he needs to handle this alone. My heart is with you both ❤
 
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