Yesterday morning, I had a session with a local dog trainer here. I know our methods don't exactly mesh, and I was a bit concerned that would cause conflict, but decided that the potential benefits outweighed the risks, so I put my big-girl pants on and off we went. I had described in detail beforehand what I wanted to do, and when I got there, we talked over which of her dogs would be most appropriate. We settled on Katie, a lovely boxer. She has a much more "trained" male Mali, but my concern there was that he wouldn't display natural body language, and that wouldn't help Shadow's learning. Katie came with her own worries, because the only female dog he has ever had a go at was a boxer, so it was a case of "suck it and see". To be fair to Shadow, that time with the other boxer was when he was in deep snow, trying to dig his ball, and she ran into him. It's possible she startled him, or tweaked a muscle in the snow... so although his reaction was OTT, I am pretty sure it didn't come about
because she was a boxer.
The plan was to recreate what I'd done with Rocky previously; have Shadow muzzled and on a long line, and just go for a walk, once settled, allowing brief greetings and see if we can progress to him being let off the line. Meanwhile, Katie was on a lead to start off with, because her owner thought the likelihood was that she would want to come over and play otherwise. The most useful thing about having a trainer in this situation is that she can accurately predict how her dog will behave, can read body language better than most, and can also take direction better!
Just a quick note here: I know that the advice is to only ever use a long line with a harness, for safety. I fully agree with that advice, and would give the same to others. However, I chose to attach it to his collar, firstly because the harness would add additional stress which I didn't want (he already had enough with the environment) and also I'm adept at keeping the line "attached" at all time, so it never gets loose enough to trail on the floor. This means it cannot get tangled around a leg, cannot cause any jerking to the neck above what a normal lead would, and so brings no greater risk. But I still wouldn't advise other people do it because I'd feel horrible if someone copied and did cause an injury by doing so.
Also note, I've removed the sound from the video, so that I can watch the body language of the dogs without being influenced by what we were saying at the time.
We set out, and it was a struggle for the very first part, as we had to walk past a series of outdoor dog runs, with the dogs up by the fence. Some were calm, others were barking and running back and forth. You can see that, at the start, Shadow's hackles are up and he's distinctly uncomfortable. The long line, however, allows him to behave pretty naturally (although he is aware he's wearing it), rather than being forced into a restricted walk next to me.
You can see that Katie is playful and wants to engage with him, but Shadow is very pointedly ignoring her! After just over four minutes, (of real time, the footers throughout the video are the "real" time stamps), I walked close enough for them to meet, and then we break it off almost immediately. Over the next couple of minutes, we let them do the same a couple more times, but we always break it off very quickly. At around 7 minutes, after he's sniffed her bum a couple of times, he's comfortable enough to walk past her so she's behind him - a big deal for him. Although, it's interesting to note (2:40ish on the video) how he demonstrates avoidance by taking as wide a path as possible.
By seven and a half minutes in, we're both happy enough that he's OK to come off lead, although Katie stayed on lead at this point, so he could manage his own space. He's quite happy to move into Katie's space to share a sniff without any issues at all. Nice, comfortable, stress-free interactions. When he goes in to sniff, again we break it up quickly, N keeps Katie moving and I give Shadow lots of encouragement and praise. By the 13 minute mark, Katie is off-lead, and they are mooching about together naturally. There is very little interaction, but one time Shadow went in for a sniff (4:13ish on this video) and Katie broke off with a bow and that was it. I actually think that was a brilliant little interaction - both dogs unsupported/unimpeded by handlers, Katie wasn't sure about the sniff, so she dealt with it in a lovely "fool around" (remember, "fight, flight, freeze, fool around" - Shadow freezes as usual); Shadow considered this, then decided it was nothing to worry about.
At 4:37 (video time), Shadow came over for some loving, and then Katie came in to see what was going on. Shadow took offence to this - interestingly, under normal circumstances he doesn't resource guard food or balls, or us, but in this situation, he wasn't happy with her being there in that moment. But you can see there was nothing horrible, and watching it back, you can just see a bit of tension in his body. He did growl, but I consider that to be appropriate to vocalise his unease. I mean, this is only about 18 minutes after he met her for the first time, pretty good going I reckon! As you can see, immediately afterwards everything was forgotten, and he was happy to trot alongside her again.
28 minutes in to the walk, I removed his muzzle, and they continued on just bimbling around together and separately, sharing smells, nothing to report. I think this is just brilliant, and shows why this tactic is really worthwhile for him. We've taken the stress of meeting out of the situation by taking it slowly, having repeated very short greets that don't have the chance to escalate, time between to settle back down, and then, crucially, not including anything that either dog feels they need to guard against. I didn't feed Shadow at all during this walk, and didn't use a ball. He had nothing to guard, nothing to overshadow the experience. Just a carefully orchestrated introduction and then a natural walk.
There was one other instance of escalation from neutral, and that was at 6:15 in the video. Unfortunately, it was off screen so you can't see the actual event. At this point, neither dog is leashed or muzzled. Shadow is walking alongside me and, as you can see, Katie approaches and gets between me and him. Shadow bared his teeth, no vocalisation. Actually, if you pause at 6:17, you can see it. But, I just give my little clap and, "let's go!" and he's instantly broken off and trotted away, followed by a lovely little shake-off.
The end is less good, but I've left it in and will try to take the positives out of it! I hadn't realised we were back at the dog runs - I have an appalling sense of direction! At 6:37 on the video, Shadow suddenly notices the dogs, and runs to engage. This is his normal threat assessment behaviour. He didn't come back to me calling, which I wasn't really surprised by but, hey, you gotta try, right? His body language was stiff, but the positive is that there was absolutely no vocalisation, no fence-fighting. He moved from one dog to the next, rather than fixating on the first one. Then I collected him and put him on lead!
(I don't expect anyone to watch the video - it's 7 minutes long! - but I'm leaving it here for posterity and as a reference for anyone else who struggles with meeting new dogs)
Over all, I don't think it could have gone much better, and I have a plan for our next session (Sunday).