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I had already watched the Kamal/ Nando video and intensely disliked it. I've actually watched it again and still feel the same.
Nando and Jo-Rosie sounded as pleased as punch to be 'not afraid to say no' when their dog went to take food from their child's hand. Well I think as trainers who charge people a lot of money for advice they should be ashamed of not realising their own dog would be likely to do this and putting the dog somewhere else while the child ate. Of course I have occasionally shouted at dogs (though I have to say rarely at Molly because the more unacceptable you find it the less likely you are to do it - and of course I'm retired so less stressed!) but it's not a way of training or improving the dog's behaviour, it's just an involuntary human response.
Training with +R ( and ok I occasionally use -P such as removing attention) doesn't mean that the dog is allowed to behave in antisocial ways. Nando claims that he is seeing more 'brattish' behaviour from dogs - I'm not, most dogs I meet are happy and well adjusted.
I'm not convinced that using punishment as a means of training is either more effective or quicker. Anecdotally, the Flatcoat that I worked with for a year on not jumping up had spent 4 years being pushed down and shouted at / told no to no effect. My method wasn't very quick but it worked. My first dog as an adult was a rescue Springer who had had 3 homes before me, her only sin being dreadful food stealing. I knew very little about dog training and gave it almost no thought and I shouted and (to my shame) even smacked her once. It did no good. Thankfully I'd had a kind upbringing where being kind to our dogs was built in so I simply managed it by not leaving food out/ putting the dog in another room and when my son was born and started solid food I put him in a high chair to eat. Subsequent dogs, as puppies, I trained not to steal food.
I'm not even convinced about using force as a last resort, as with the dog forced out of its kennel. In that case they say it worked with no unwanted consequences. I think they were lucky and in many cases the dog might have bitten them or become totally shut-down.
I haven't yet watched the Jane Ardern video.
Nando and Jo-Rosie sounded as pleased as punch to be 'not afraid to say no' when their dog went to take food from their child's hand. Well I think as trainers who charge people a lot of money for advice they should be ashamed of not realising their own dog would be likely to do this and putting the dog somewhere else while the child ate. Of course I have occasionally shouted at dogs (though I have to say rarely at Molly because the more unacceptable you find it the less likely you are to do it - and of course I'm retired so less stressed!) but it's not a way of training or improving the dog's behaviour, it's just an involuntary human response.
Training with +R ( and ok I occasionally use -P such as removing attention) doesn't mean that the dog is allowed to behave in antisocial ways. Nando claims that he is seeing more 'brattish' behaviour from dogs - I'm not, most dogs I meet are happy and well adjusted.
I'm not convinced that using punishment as a means of training is either more effective or quicker. Anecdotally, the Flatcoat that I worked with for a year on not jumping up had spent 4 years being pushed down and shouted at / told no to no effect. My method wasn't very quick but it worked. My first dog as an adult was a rescue Springer who had had 3 homes before me, her only sin being dreadful food stealing. I knew very little about dog training and gave it almost no thought and I shouted and (to my shame) even smacked her once. It did no good. Thankfully I'd had a kind upbringing where being kind to our dogs was built in so I simply managed it by not leaving food out/ putting the dog in another room and when my son was born and started solid food I put him in a high chair to eat. Subsequent dogs, as puppies, I trained not to steal food.
I'm not even convinced about using force as a last resort, as with the dog forced out of its kennel. In that case they say it worked with no unwanted consequences. I think they were lucky and in many cases the dog might have bitten them or become totally shut-down.
I haven't yet watched the Jane Ardern video.